My friend dating my ex girlfriend
He has been involved with a lot of our activities, and is also friends with my girlfriend. You are angry and hurt because you feel that your ex-girlfriend and your best friend betrayed you. The two people you cared about most have found each other and abandoned you.
Now, my best friend is not telling me when my ex and he do things together. I don't know how I can deal with the two people I cared about most now. It happens in books and movies, and in real life as well. If anything, they screwed up by ruining their friendships with you — or perhaps they just found each other, and the loss of your friendship is part of the fallout. Moving on may mean making changes regarding your interactions with them as a way of helping you to heal and regain your sense of well-being.
Perhaps you can speak with a trusted friend, family member, or counselor during this time.
Here's another way to look at this situation: that you have been given a fresh opportunity to find the person who is actually "meant" for you.
Even if you're no longer with the person who you once thought to be the love of your life, how could you stomach that person being with your friend?
Regardless of how much each of you has moved on, there is always that bittersweet feeling of what could have been.
However, the one thing that seems to be the unwritten rule among us is that we would never even consider dating our friends' exes. But now I realize this rule really needs more thought, because I believe there are two factors to consider before answering my girlfriend's Facebook question.
You need to weigh the value of your friendship with the woman vs.
The second factor, which may seem contradictory, is that it depends on how much you invested in and loved the ex-boyfriend.Her experiences in the dating world inspire her "Relationship Rant" column.Check back every week for her take on dating and relationships.I feel that while he might not be dishonorable about my girlfriend, he is there for her, and not for me, and he is creating an opportunity for her to like him, and not me. Right now, it is important to take care of yourself. You may want to talk things through with them to let them know how hurt you are. Or, you may want to just cut your losses, not communicating with them at all.Seeking out advice or support during this hard time may help you clear your mind.Your closest friends will know every dirty deed, bad situation or heartbreak he may have caused.And because they are familiar with all the dirt on him, they wouldn't touch him.I can honestly say there are some ex-boyfriends that, if they find happiness, God bless them, because I know it was crazy between us.But there are two ex-boyfriends who hold a special place in my heart because even though I know it could never work between us, I recognize the impact we each had in each other's lives.However, if you and your ex didn't work out just because you just weren't right for each other and there was no real drama involved, what's the harm if your current girlfriend and someone you once loved end up together?"Once loved" are the operative words here Too often, women become territorial, trying to mark our men as if past loves are actually possessions that we own for life.