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The conversation is all about you and you want to be able to control exactly how your image is conveyed.Start off on the right foot by removing all distractions from the background. That way, the caller's brain can focus as closely as possible on chatting to you."It all distracts from the communication we are trying to have right now," explains Bowden.Put on a jacket and shirt and see what a difference it makes.Your caller is going to have a mental image of you pretty much embedded into their brain from the moment you answer, so getting that look right at the start is really important.
First impressions count and your appearance makes up a huge part of that.When speaking to us Bowden chose to use his Android phone for one very good reason."When I do these kinds of things on my laptop I start opening my calendar or I start opening documents," he says.If you want to convey yourself as a laid back person over video chat, then wear something casual."The brain judges things by their cover," Bowden confirms."Here, having a conversation around business, I have put on a shirt and jacket."If you are going for the more serious, business approach, then look businesslike."This should feel like better eye contact for you."Me looking right down the lens at you, this might feel like a real conversation.Me looking at the picture of you, this might make you feel a little more dislocated from things," he says."Eye contact is the signal for who the relationship is between.Looking into the camera lens will give the caller the impression you are looking right at them.This is crucial in terms of the visual data that it offers to the caller.In essence, what your brain doesn't know, it fills with negatives.You need to appear attentive and interested, so if your caller can't see your hands, or if you have a keyboard in front of you, the caller's brain will presume you aren't paying attention.